‘We are creators’

Yesterday, as I sat down to dinner with my new friend Lex, I learned a lot about the life around me and I think that I should share this change in perspective because let’s face it; the only way to actually change your mindset is by changing your perspective. That being said, I would like to create a new perspective for you this morning.

Look at everything around you right now, just look; Do you know that all those things would not exist if you didn’t exist? the chair, the flower vase, the direction your bed faces, the style of clothes in your closet, the books you read… none of them would exist without you meaning you created the world around you. It’s indeed a fantastic thing to think about.

After Lex blew my mind with this revelation, he went on to show me that I have so much power and that I don’t have to let anything just happen, I can create it to happen the way that I want it to. It’s an empowering thought.

so, we are creators and everything that ‘s happening to you and around you, you create with your mind, actions, thoughts or deeds. You can allow things to happen to you or you can make something happen the way you want it to. It’s simple: We are makers of any and everything , we are creators.



New Year, Just be

I’ve only blogged once, since the day I started blogging but I have been writing in my journal because well, the things that happened to me last year were the type of things you only write in your journal. Hopefully, this year, I will have more blog type things happen to me. n the last year though, I have however learned a lot about life, people and of course, love.  

It’s a new year but somehow, this year, I didn’t feel the urge to do all the things I usually do like write a whole list of what I wish would happen this year, or make resolutions. If life taught me anything last year, it’s this…
    “surprise m*********” (I’m going to cut down on my swearing) 
Life is unpredictable and the sooner we realize this, the less stressed we will all be. In this year, i’m going to chill out and let life happen. I’m just going to let life happen, i’m going to let it teach me, and i’m going to let it happen. I think that all we can do is hope for the best and prepare for the worst. it’s not pessimistic, it’s not cowardice, it’s wisdom in my eyes. Image

How many times have you tried to interfere with your life, with other people’s life and it turned out as you hoped it would? this year? just be. If you let life unfold as it should, you’ll be surprised still at how beautiful and sensible everything turns out to be in time; God is smarter than the whole universe put together.

Meanwhile, please come back and visit me here, if you care any about where I am, or what i’m doing, or if you just want to read a blog,  about the life of a Nigerian girl in America. I’ll be here 🙂